Jessica, a year-old who lives in Mississippi, was dating a guy recently when the subject of sexual history came up. Jessica said she immediately felt nervous. She'd had sex before, but because of her religious beliefs, had since been abstaining from sex. Sometimes it feels like it's ok for guys to do whatever, but if a girl says, no I'm not a virgin , we're looked at with more shame. That internalized shame is something that a lot of young women unfortunately experience — regardless of religious background. And Jessica's right that men and women are treated differently when it comes to sexual history.
Sex with a Virgin - How to Tell if a Girl is a Virgin
Hello, I wanted to know if a girl is a virgin and she has sex for the first time, will her vagina stretch or become physically damaged for life? This question has been troubling me for years. The vagina may be stretched during intercourse but it will regain its original shape soon after the act. It will not be damaged if the intercourse is done in a proper and gentle manner. If the penetration occurs after the vagina has been lubricated, then there will be no pain. Also, the woman has to be absolutely comfortable with the partner during sex. I have been married for past three months and working in a gulf country.