For a position that seemingly everyone has heard of, cowgirl can still be intimidating! Being on top can come with a whole new set of questions. What do you do with your hands? What do you do when your legs get tired?
What to Do If Cowgirl Position Isn't Working for You
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When your partner of any gender! If your partner has a vulva, they're more likely to orgasm, too, since they can control exactly where and how hard you hit that region of the internal clitoris known as the G-spot. You should also change up exactly how your partner rides you—because even though cowgirl is a gift from the gods, it will grow stale if you do it every time. Not to worry. Slight tweaks on the classic position can be enough to up your sex game from great to earth-shattering.
In honor of this pop-culture moment and maybe more specifically, the Dixie Chicks getting back together , we were inspired to revisit a classic but underappreciated sex position: Cowgirl. In the Cowgirl position, one partner howdy! The partner on top grinds against the hard shaft, essentially riding the body below them. One of the most enjoyable aspects of the Cowgirl position is the tension between the clit and the shaft penis, strap-on, etc. If you are sitting completely upright, you may not get to enjoy that stimulation, and maybe feel a bit like a jack-in-the-box.
Just check out the picture below. The great thing about Cowgirl is that you are now the one in control which can be really fun if your man is usually the one on top and calling the shots. As I said, this is an incredibly easy position to have sex in. Your man just needs to simply lay on his back while you straddle him with your legs either side of his waist so that your knees are on the bed. You can put your hands on his chest, shoulders or the bed to steady yourself or you can just put them on your thighs.