Salt-N-Pepa's song, " Let's Talk About Sex ," was a hit for a reason: Couples who discuss tricky topics, like what's going down in the bedroom , are 10 times more likely to have a happy relationship than those who ignore difficult subjects, says Joseph Grenny, social scientist and co-author of Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High. Before you get beneath the sheets and maybe even after , experts say you should have these sex conversations with your partner. Trust us, doing so will make the experience that much more enjoyable. Yes, it's possible to have a good experience trying something new with no verbal communication.
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S ex is a life-affirming act, one of the most intimate things you can do with another person. But talking about it? So much harder. For example, someone with low desire may have been harbouring 20 years of resentment about something else. Is talking about sex ever a bad idea?
QQ: When having sex with a new partner for the first time, would you rather it be mediocre, or mind-blowingly fantastic? If it's the latter which I hope it is , then you've come to the right place Allow me to drop some tea that hardly anyone dishes: Your sex life won't hit its peak until you master the sex talk. You can have all the toys , lube , and sexual experiences in the world, but nothing is going to make you orgasm quite like having sex after a well-executed sex talk with a new partner.
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